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A one-night stand or one-night sex is a single sexual encounter in which there is an expectation that there shall be no further relations between the sexual participants. It draws its name from the common practice of a one-night stand, a single night performance by an entertainer at a venue. The practice can be described as "sexual activity without emotional commitment or future involvement".Jeffrey S. Turner, ''American Families in Crisis: A Reference Handbook'' (2009), p. 47.


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The one-night stand is the most common form of
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and is often used in research, polls and surveys to define the level of promiscuity in a society at any given time. It has been suggested that such an act can be as threatening to a relationship as a long-term affair: Some women have suggested that women who feel sexually insecure or unfulfilled should seek out one-night stands for personal growth and fulfillment. One writes, " one-night stand is the erotic manifestation of carpe diem— only we are seizing the night instead of the day". Another source advises women seeking
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to "jumpstart your heyday by having a one-night stand",Jodi Lipper, Cerina Vincent, ''Live Like a Hot Chick: How to Feel Sexy, Find Confidence, and Create Balance at Work and Play'' (2010), p. 167. and clarifies that the one-night stand should be a conscious decision. The prevalence of one-night stands has been abetted by the advent of online dating apps such as
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and
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, which allow people to connect for purposes including sexual encounters, although these tools can also be used to seek longer-term relationship partners.


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suggests that the circumstances that lead to such an encounter do not necessarily preclude a later relationship: In contrast to a one-night stand, when the individuals involved have recurrent sexual contact without romantic involvement, this is considered a
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Fantasy

A one-night stand may also be included in a
sexual fantasy A sexual fantasy or erotic fantasy is a mental image or pattern of thought that stirs a person's sexuality and can create or enhance sexual arousal. A sexual fantasy can be created by the person's imagination or memory, and may be triggered auto ...
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See also

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Anonymous sex Anonymous sex is a form of one-night stand or casual sex between people who have very little or no history with each other, often engaging in sexual activity on the same day of their meeting and usually never seeing each other again afterwards. The ...
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Casual sex Casual sex is sexual activity that takes place outside a romantic relationship and implies an absence of commitment, emotional attachment, or familiarity between sexual partners. Examples are sexual activity while casually dating, one-night ...
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Quickie (sexual act) A quickie is sexual intercourse that a couple may engage in when the time available is minimal. The quickie may arise from a spontaneous sexual desire by the parties or be a regular or planned arrangement. Description Because of the limit on ...


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